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This study tested parents' nonaccommodation of their young adult child's sexual identity and the child's topic avoidance and surface acting as mediators of family communication patterns (FCPs, i.e., conversation and conformity orientations) and shared family identity (SFI). Participants included 205 sexual minorities who reported on their parents' nonaccommodation in conversations about LGBTQ+ issues. Both FCP orientations were indirectly associated with SFI with each parent through different explanatory pathways. Notably, conformity orientation was indirectly associated with SFI with father through mother's nonaccommodation to topic avoidance with mother. Conversely, it was indirectly associated with SFI with mother through father's nonaccommodation to topic avoidance with father. The results extend FCP theory by illuminating a relational dynamic among identity-divergent family members that may create (un)healthy alliances within families. [ABSTRACT FROM AUTHOR]

This study tested sexual minorities' (SM) surface acting with parents, identity gaps with family, and perceived stress as serial mediators of parents' nonaccommodation and SM's mental well-being (i.e., mental health and self-esteem). Participants included 205 sexual minorities who reported on their parents' unwanted advice about their sexual identity and the degree to which they emphasized divergent values in conversations about LGBTQ+ issues. For both mental health and self-esteem, significant and negative indirect effects emerged for both mother's and father's nonaccommodation through a sequence of SM's surface acting, to personal-enacted identity gap, to perceived stress. These indirect effects, however, were moderated by relational closeness with each parent. Consequently, unwanted advice about children's SM identities and messages that emphasize divergent values may be harmful even if family relations do not appear overtly contentious or hostile. [ABSTRACT FROM AUTHOR]