1. Romantic relationships, individualism and the possibility of togetherness: seeing Durkheim in theories of contemporary intimacy
- Author
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Santore, Daniel
- Subjects
Individualism -- Social aspects ,Individuality -- Social aspects ,Romantic love -- Social aspects ,Durkheimian school of sociology -- Research ,Interpersonal relations -- Research ,Sociology and social work - Abstract
A parallel is drawn in this article between influential theoretical perspectives on the contemporary culture of romantic intimacy, and Durkheimian interpretations off modernity, individualism and social solidarity. The author sketches generalities of Durkheim's account of individualism and solidarity in modern society; this sketch serves as a heuristic for cataloguing and distilling North American and European theories of contemporary intimacy that have emerged post-1960. Scholarly discourse on intimacy is shown to share rhetorical and substantive ground with Durkheimian understandings of individual interest and social obligation. Self-development and collective ties, and the potential for these to be mutually reinforcing, are central concerns in intimacy theory. Though not commonly engaged in such a manner, perspectives on contemporary intimacy present an opportunity to explore personal relationships in a style uniquely consistent with the generalist inclinations of past sociological traditions, and to move beyond heavily normative claims about individualism in intimacy. KEY WORDS Durkheim / individualism / intimacy / sexual relationships / social solidarity / theoretical problems
- Published
- 2008