1. Courtship, drinking and control: a qualitative analysis of women's and men's experiences.
- Author
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Ferris, Jacqueline
- Subjects
Drinking of alcoholic beverages -- Analysis ,Dating (Social customs) -- Analysis - Abstract
This paper focuses on the control strategies of the men and women interviewed in dating situations. In particular, the differences between the control strategies employed by men and by women [...], Drawing on qualitative interviews with 21 women and 19 men, this paper describes the social rules that govern the dating situation, the symbolic and pharmacological role of alcohol in dating, and the strategies used to avoid conflict and aggression. Women use strategies to minimize risk, while men try to avoid problems by ensuring that they have control of the situation. A qualitative study of courtship, dating and drinking was undertaken with young adult in Toronto, Canada, in the summer of 1994. Those interviewed were between Me ages of 18 and 34, heterosexual, had no children, occasionally drank alcohol, and had dated someone new at least once in the past year. This paper reports on one aspect of the analysis of the data from the 40 people (19 men and 21 women) interviewed This study suggests that aggression is one response to conflicting views of a dating situation. The men and women interviewed had expectations for appropriate behavior when meeting potential mates and on initial dates, and in most cases those expectations were the same. However, where expectations differed, the men attempted to impose their framing of the situation, and the women generally resisted, attempting to limit the risk associated with this framing of the situation. The men and women interviewed used tactics such as persuasion, manipulation or even aggression to attempt to resolve this conflict, and to impose their own situational definitions.
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- 1997