‘… My biggest worry now is how my husband is going to cope’: women’s relational experiences of cancer ‘care’ during illness.

The impact of a cancer diagnosis flows beyond the person, fundamentally shaping relationships with partners, family and friends. Living with cancer can change people’s needs considerably, often requiring additional care from loved ones, potentially disrupting existing relational expectations, capacities and dynamics. A relational ontological approach is needed to better understand how women’s cancer experiences are inter-subjectively shaped within relationships and by prevailing social scripts. Drawing on interviews with 81 women with cancer, we explore women’s accounts of living with cancer and their experience of ‘care’ within close relationships with others. The interviews revealed how women respond to their illness as an experience in relation to their (male) partners; how they navigate patterns of care in their lives; and how social scripts of gender, care and emotionality shape their experiences. This adds to the sociology of care, and the understanding of care as situated within gendered, relational and social expectations around illness, coping and caring. [ABSTRACT FROM AUTHOR]