Returning to daily life: a qualitative interview study on parents of childhood cancer survivors in Germany

ObjectivesTo investigate experiences of parents of paediatric cancer survivors in cancer-related changes in the parents’ daily life (work life, family life, partner relationship and social life) during and after intensive cancer treatment and to examine the reintegration process with its impeding and facilitating factors.DesignThe design of this cross-sectional study involves a qualitative content analysis of semistructured interviews.SettingParticipants were consecutively recruited in clinical settings throughout Germany.ParticipantsForty-nine parents (59% female) of 31 cancer survivors (aged 0–17 at diagnosis of leukaemia or central nervous system tumour) were interviewed approximately 16–24 months after the end of intensive cancer treatment (eg, chemotherapy).ResultsDuring treatment, more than 70% of parents reported difficulties reconciling paid work, household and family responsibilities and caring for the ill child. Couples spent little time with each other and approximately 25% reported dispute and burden. Many parents did not have enough energy for pursuing any hobbies during treatment. However, over the long term, being faced with the child’s disease also led to strengthened relationships, new priorities, improved communication, increased mutual trust and greater appreciation for daily life. Supportive social networks (family/friends/employers), a strong partner relationship prior to the diagnosis and the use of psychosocial services (eg, family-oriented rehabilitation) had a positive impact. At the time of the interview, most families had adapted well. However, reintegration took time and some parents lacked the energy required to continue life as they did before the diagnosis.ConclusionsEven though most parents successfully readjusted to a new ‘normality’, reintegrating into daily life after paediatric cancer treatment remains difficult. Professional psychosocial support could help families with the reintegration process. Lastly, clinical staff (eg, physicians, psychologists, social workers) should bear in mind that the burden of parents does not automatically end with the end of intensive cancer treatment.