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The article describes the personality of highly sensitive people (HSP), which coincides with a desire to obtain special privileges or accommodations for difficult tasks. Observations among HSPs include being overwhelmed by their environment, moved by the arts and music, and more aware of nuances in surroundings. It suggests the link between self-identified HSPs and narcissistic personality traits and refers to vulnerable or hypersensitive narcissism as a quieter, more passive aggressive form.

The author discusses the power of daydreaming to overcome the challenges of the present through self-generated images and monologues, as well as the detriment when ignoring to daydream. It also discusses the three styles of daydreaming associated with a specific personality profile identified by researcher Jerome L. Singer, the field offered by daydreams for realizing one's potential, and the higher sense of identity and meaning through the consolidation of memories, ideas, and plans. INSET: DREAM SCENES.

The article discusses the psychology of narcissism. According to the author, the ego of narcissist will reveal high level of self-esteem, self-focus and self-importance. He adds that narcissists believe they are more physically attractive and intelligent than anyone. He mentions some signs of narcissism which include hypergenerosity in public, insecurity and hypersensitivity, and pessimistic. Tips on how to avoid falling in love with a narcissist are mentioned. INSETS: 5 SIGNS OF A STEALTH NARCISSIST;ARE YOU IN LOVE WITH A NARCISSIST?.

This article explores the ways to win the reality television program "American Idol." It recounts the author's experience of joining the auditions of the show in 2005 and being rejected after singing for 10 seconds. He states that the x-factor on "American Idol" is a combination of intrinsic motivation, charisma, and musicality. He also presents a description of different types of the show's contestants including the Ivy League gangster, glam rocker, and boy next door.

The article discusses the components of achieving success in life. Ability can take time to develop. The contribution that genes make to ability does not fully determine how the ability will be expressed. According to University of Pennsylvania psychologist Angela Duckworth, passion is a component, along with perseverance, of what she calls grit. Systematic studies of successful individuals reveal that a history of impediments may be more the rule than the exception. Running into roadblocks can force psychological growth and spurs ego strength.

The article discusses the possible connection between androgyny and artistic expression. Several musicians including Adam Lambert, Annie Lennox and David Bowie are observed to be androgynous. Research that supports the connection between psychological androgyny and divergent thought is mentioned. Creativity, parental effectiveness and marital satisfaction are considered as advantageous aspects of androgyny.

An interview with Daniel Tammet, author of the book "Embracing the Wide Sky" who has Asperger syndrome, is presented. He mentioned some of the challenges of Asperger's such as brushing the teeth because of the noise of the brush. When asked if people can change their personalities, he said yes because his own story illustrates that. He said that what people should realize is how any person decides to emphasize strength and mitigate weaknesses is something people have to figure out for themselves.

The article presents the Mating Intelligence Scale, a scientific tool to test the interpersonal relationship of men and women. The Mating Intelligence Scale was developed exclusively for the journal "Psychology Today," by Glenn Geher and Scott Batty Kaufman. Each test is designed to provide a guide to relationship effectiveness. It is not a definitive statement about individual character.